tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post5582612091910381159..comments2024-02-28T19:37:14.696+01:00Comments on moments of perfect clarity: in which she worries about the futurejulochkahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10884096685015570257noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-35734675245004547992009-05-18T03:18:00.000+02:002009-05-18T03:18:00.000+02:00yup. sometimes it all just seems too much to bear....yup. sometimes it all just seems too much to bear. strange that we keep on going, eh?mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05245587915511203917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-28025252547265396582009-05-15T18:39:00.000+02:002009-05-15T18:39:00.000+02:00similar thought kept me awake all night.similar thought kept me awake all night.helehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500335410678018061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-83099160206258748322009-05-09T01:45:00.000+02:002009-05-09T01:45:00.000+02:00don't even get me started on swine flu...
But ser...don't even get me started on swine flu...<br /><br />But seriously, it is people like you who realize these kinds of things and can instill good virtues in the next generations to do the same with their children. <br /><br />That's why education (I sound like my mother) is so important. To physically get to the scene of the action and see the reality before the hype. To realize that news media is just another form of profiteering. To see that people who dress and look differently to you still have feelings and love and children and needs.<br /><br />You go Julie!Stacey Childshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03194451680364546474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-22039227753784407672009-05-08T10:00:00.000+02:002009-05-08T10:00:00.000+02:00hi julochka, have been following your blog for a l...hi julochka, have been following your blog for a little while. i think it's great you wrote that post - why only ever blog about beautiful and funny things when sometimes this is just not what is moving us deep down. i guess we should all be brave like that, sharing these thoughts, more often.<br /><br />i've thought about giving up tv more than once, but have decided against it. i have a masters degree in humanities but i still like to watch some crap tv every now and again. hey-ho. but i'm finding i like watching less tv-news and instead follow newspapers from different countries online. i like that there is such a big range of information - it's not just front-page-disaster-oriented 'news' but reports about real people, about positive developments, about the arts, you name it. it helps me to put things in perspective. because it shows that no matter how bad things are in our world, and they are, there are ordinary people everywhere, who try to make it a better place, each in their own way. and i do believe the little things we do count for far more than it might seem.<br /><br />i just know your daughter will be strong - because quite obviously she has two loving, very strong parents.kristina - no penny for themhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10610821402405419367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-75738446972278165022009-05-08T00:20:00.000+02:002009-05-08T00:20:00.000+02:00I know, I know...so much scary stuff out there. As...I know, I know...so much scary stuff out there. As a mom to a 14 and 18 yr old, it's hard to let your kids go and experience it. But remember, through the road is uncertain, twisted and sometimes dark, have faith (and turn off the TV, grab a good book, glass of favorite whatever and breath). "Love conquers all". <br /><br />“There is no fear in love. Perfect<br />love casts out fear.”<br />~ 1 John 4:18<br /><br />"Faith is the strength by which<br />a shattered world shall emerge<br />into the light.”<br />~ Helen Keller<br /><br />Check out this interesting site I stumbled upon: http://www.fearorlove.com<br /><br />Food for thought.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14011213468397062735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-10783625006361339992009-05-07T23:50:00.000+02:002009-05-07T23:50:00.000+02:00I am not a mother. But i am a very paranoid person...I am not a mother. But i am a very paranoid person. I admit to it. <br />And this topic is one of the most prominent thoughts whirling around my brain these days. <br /><br />People were arguing in the diner I was settled at the other evening while with my Lucas. They were arguing about "where did we come from?" you know, god or evolution. chicken and egg convo. <br />I laughed, not out of humour, and looked at Lucas saying "Why are they so worried about who created us? We should be worried about whos destroying us. and that happens to be US." our dinner was left in silence for some time after that, staring off towards the ranting couple. <br /><br />XkKortniihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11818424834497292140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-4619115300166478672009-05-07T23:30:00.000+02:002009-05-07T23:30:00.000+02:00I think our president is one of those thinkers. Bu...I think our president is one of those thinkers. But you're right, there are too few today, especially in positions of power. The best we can do for our children is give them strong foundations and as much education as possible, so they can think for themselves when those around them aren't (thinking).paris parfaithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05457437124988976587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-47013934734623818442009-05-07T23:26:00.000+02:002009-05-07T23:26:00.000+02:00I can't help but think about this on a DAILY basis...I can't help but think about this on a DAILY basis because of where i am and what i'm doing right now. <br /><br />fact of the matter being, I am at war. <br /><br />No i did not choose start this war. No, i may not agree whole heartedly about the reason. but i am here. <br /><br />Why am i doing this? but a better question might be is Why am i happy about being here and doing this?<br /><br />I want to make the world a better place. It is hard to watch the news when i'm actually home stateside and hear all the bashing and the terrible news report and so on about whats going on over here. <br /><br />what the news doesn't say is all the good things that are going on. the smiles on the faces of the kids we help out on an almost daily basis. the good things and positive aspects of our mission here don't equal ratings. so they're not news worthy. <br /><br />I think that it's a responsibility of each individual person to try and make the world a better place. <br /><br />You can't sit back and complain about our future if you don't try to make it better. <br /><br />even if its just recycling. something is better than nothing.Mrs.Rottyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00248825951117235037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-5147493958735187282009-05-07T23:07:00.000+02:002009-05-07T23:07:00.000+02:00I'm really choked up so I hope what I'm writing ma...I'm really choked up so I hope what I'm writing makes some type of sense.<br /><br />What you say is so true. I got so fed up watching CNN and other cable news shows (and even other shows on television) that I've considerably cut down how often I watch. I don't think reporting and journalism is fresh or informative anymore. Everyone's just trying to be the one who got the story first. I know there's a lot of bad things going on in the world, but there's a good side to life too. There are good, well-intentioned people, and I don't understand why decency and solid values aren't considered news worthy.<br /><br />I feel for children because there's all this pressure to look a certain way, and being successful is equated to if you can win money on a reality show. There just doesn't seem to be enough examples, particulary in the medai, of persons with strong character. There's such an unbelievable preoccupation with celebrity (especially umerited celebrity).Carlottahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00135797687978820890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-28333875441841296532009-05-07T22:16:00.000+02:002009-05-07T22:16:00.000+02:00Dear julochka
Bee pointed me in your direction.
Ho...Dear julochka<br />Bee pointed me in your direction.<br />How well I understand how difficult and confusing it is when bombarded with (dis)information all the time.<br />Yes, you would be much happier without your TV.<br />Last week in the US we were all going to die of Swine Flu. This week, since only one person has died, no one is interested any more.<br />We are very vulnerable and raw when our children are young. In the 80's when mine were young it was Chernoyble (sp), before that it was Nazis and TB and <br />diptheria (That was a horror).<br />So, sadly, its always SOMETHING, and the media does nothing to help.<br />So only watch the news once a day on a serious channel. Ignore celebrities and realise that the world wags on for better or worse much as it has ever done.<br />Think of the position of women in the 19th cent and the third world now...<br />Think how much improvement there has been in medicine (of course too much now)<br />Sending you greetings from NY and hopeful thoughts.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03964291132366262298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-43517851854307695722009-05-07T21:04:00.000+02:002009-05-07T21:04:00.000+02:00Carson was born right after Columbine happened, an...Carson was born right after Columbine happened, and I very quickly lesarned how scary it is to raise a child. However, my mom talks about practicing running into the bomb shelters when she was young, so all generations have their own fears for their children.<br /><br />Again, our lack of news on tv at home helps tremendously.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08090184398267603913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-43311939506507642002009-05-07T20:38:00.000+02:002009-05-07T20:38:00.000+02:00I know what you mean. I live in Northern Ireland,...I know what you mean. I live in Northern Ireland, born and bred, and although the hateful sectarianism thankfully didnt blight my developing brain as a child, now that my wife and I are in the early stages of planning for a family (ie, talking about it) I share your worry.<br /><br />will the remaining dissident threat try to make a return to everyday killing on our streets?<br /><br />will my child be caught up in that violence, physically or subliminally like the majority of us normal people here were, ie, non combatants living in fear...<br /><br />but, what are the options? when good people do nothing the bad guys dominate. who knows, but lets hope, because without hope we're done for.<br /><br />phew! I need to watch some stand-up comedy or somethin now!30th Attempthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02363768156587301050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-35179459685840089012009-05-07T19:03:00.000+02:002009-05-07T19:03:00.000+02:00In the end, you can't protect her. You can shield ...In the end, you can't protect her. You can shield her from things she isn't ready to understand, but she will be in the world that awaits her no matter what. What you need to consider instead is, can the world awaiting her be changed? Not if you stick your head in the sand and wish it away. My nickels worth of opinion.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13915962999372304054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-61917752974048930392009-05-07T19:00:00.000+02:002009-05-07T19:00:00.000+02:00In some ways I think the world seems worse because...In some ways I think the world seems worse because we have instant access to all of the wrongdoing in it as opposed to our forefathers who didn't have this knowledge. I think the world has always had this as long as there has been more than one human - when bad things like competition and greed are out there. <br /><br />But..we have to hold on to hope. Maybe Sabine will be the one to spark a peace movement that will spark the world. All we can do is teach and guide.Charhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03851293154388793520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-89397631120792633582009-05-07T17:17:00.000+02:002009-05-07T17:17:00.000+02:00I hear your pain. I worry a lot about the world an...I hear your pain. I worry a lot about the world and the tube it seems to be going down. I used to think my mother was crazy, getting upset about the tv & news...but lately, as I have become older (in my 30's) I think she's smart. Who wants to watch that crap? It's upsetting. I actually would rather read or write or do something creative or brainless (wash laundry) than watch the television or look outside. (seriously). <br /><br />My boyfriend thinks I'm paranoid, but I think I'm safe. Living in Germany, during the Libya bombings, having to see gas stations bombed in our backyard (more or less - Frankfurt)...was an eye opener as a kid. The world is not as it seems. It is great, but it can be very hard too. <br /><br />Has the world knocked the wind out of everyone? The wind that drove Shakespeare, Tolstoi, Doystoevky forward. Is a Utopian soceity out of reach forever?Pattern and Perspectivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911394491083914986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-53209236319723597832009-05-07T17:00:00.000+02:002009-05-07T17:00:00.000+02:00Its true, so true....what is our world becoming? ...Its true, so true....what is our world becoming? I don't even think most people take the time to reflect on what you have. So although reading the classics as you have suggested may be a great idea (a fantastic one if you ask me)...I think that if we had more people in the world who would take the time to contemplate the moment like you have...it may start the ripple of change to happen....IDK...thats just my wishful thinking on the subject lol...thanks for the insight though :)MissUnderstoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787014257625535482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-16237021744631038352009-05-07T16:39:00.000+02:002009-05-07T16:39:00.000+02:00Maybe the great thinkers of today will not be reco...Maybe the great thinkers of today will not be recognized until tomorrow. Maybe they are there, just hidden. Maybe...Ady Grafovnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03186398278244365898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-38150236438400887832009-05-07T16:37:00.000+02:002009-05-07T16:37:00.000+02:00this may be a grey post but it's far more interest...this may be a grey post but it's far more interesting... every era has probably seemed like it was a decline from the one that preceeded it and corruption and cruelty and lack of education is endemic in all societies in all times.<br /><br />however, people have the choice to act and think for themselves and this has also happened throughout history and for the good of others, in all times.<br /><br />of course we can point fingers and try to figure out the causes, but this issue will probably never die as long as humans populate this planet. however, I do fully support your ditching your television as a step in the right direction!tangobabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01288974184200212536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-17131549244446076092009-05-07T16:29:00.000+02:002009-05-07T16:29:00.000+02:00The idealism of the 1960s was partly the result of...The idealism of the 1960s was partly the result of a huge push by WWII vets to attend colleges and schools. Governments and universities responded with a terrific expansion of new schools with diverse subject matter.<br /><br />Since the 1980s we've experienced a reverse trend. Lower schools and colleges have been cutting their programs and in many ways, abandoning the open-ended concept of a "well rounded, liberal education".<br /><br />Besides becoming almost too expensive for middle class parents, today's universities have evolved towards being fancy trade schools. <br /><br />Students are rushed through four year programs with majors that are specifically targeted for employment - such as, IT, programmers, business, etc. <br /><br />Liberal arts classes - arts, sociology, etc. are minimized and no longer main stream. <br /><br />In the 1960s it was a common practice to have campus-wide seminars on philosophy, civil rights, psychology, etc but today's seminars are those that feature business leaders, entrepreneurs and technical success stories. <br /><br />Now, factor in global trends of over population, right wing governments, reactionary religions and aggressive militarism and it is not difficult imagining a grim near future experience.willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15590217997145761582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-38035459615109456062009-05-07T16:12:00.000+02:002009-05-07T16:12:00.000+02:00If only more people were sickened to think about t...If only more people were sickened to think about the world their children will inherit. Then perhaps they would be moved enough to do something to fix it?Cydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02517011999734354854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-1507557727395303122009-05-07T16:02:00.000+02:002009-05-07T16:02:00.000+02:00While I am sulky that you have many comments on th...While I am sulky that you have many comments on the subject I wrote about in which I got only 2, it perfectly illustrates why I was sulky to begin with. I wonder...do people really care as much as they say they do if collectively, they/we are the very same people that through inaction and lack of thinking and lack of participation, have allowed the world to come to this point?<br /><br />Very misanthropic comment, I know. Sorry...still a bit sulky I guess, although the ginger cookies did make it a little better. : ) On a brighter note, read what Gregg Braden has to say about our planetary position in the galaxy and why everything is so miserable. Fortunately, we're heading into brighter days. : )Laura Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14407229726272149440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-24439219794911331982009-05-07T15:57:00.000+02:002009-05-07T15:57:00.000+02:00You are right on the money ... the more history, s...You are right on the money ... the more history, sociology, philosophy, anthropology, even art ... one has, the better one can understand! I've been looking for the *great thinkers*, too. Are they out there somewhere or have we *dumbed down* society so much that even the great ones are gone ... or afraid to come out? !!! Guess you found me on one of my pedestals, ranting, with your post!Snaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16648866385164116020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-68799449051620342412009-05-07T15:56:00.000+02:002009-05-07T15:56:00.000+02:00I often find myself thinking the same, but isn't t...I often find myself thinking the same, but isn't that the curse of all parents in all times? Just imagine what our grandparents must have thought about the world in which they were raising their children, right after the WWI. Or during Cold War. Although, admittedly, they didn't have to worry about climate change. We've inherited their problems and added lots of ours, unfortunately.Jelicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15903146833019745969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-20944106161209555842009-05-07T15:53:00.000+02:002009-05-07T15:53:00.000+02:00Ditto to everything you said Julochka. I have gran...Ditto to everything you said Julochka. I have grandchildren - 2 1/2 years old, and 9 months old. And I work for our police department. It is a toss up - like Polly, I try as much as I can to ignore it. But I can't ignore all the ugliness of reality or I wouldn't be good at all at my job. I do believe, to a degree anyway, that there is much more goodness in the world than we're lead to believe. It's just not in the headlines everyday. I share your sentiments and concerns.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01360770142651924007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7131844.post-58111393970987634802009-05-07T15:37:00.000+02:002009-05-07T15:37:00.000+02:00I love the way you bookend these thoughts with the...I love the way you bookend these thoughts with the magical pictures of Sabin.<br /><br />I agree with what you say, and often think similar thoughts . . . but sometimes things do change for the better. Last night I went to a Julia Fordham concert, and she sang a song called "Happy Ever After" that she wrote about apartheid in South Africa. Sometimes we do make baby steps of progress . . . think of how awful racism used to be in the U.S., for goodness sake.<br /><br />As for philosophers, so many of my blog-friends are inspiring thinkers. xxBeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02375981493145612394noreply@blogger.com