Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Friday, May 22, 2015

100 happy days :: day 83



two years ago today, frieda badida was born
she was molly's last kitten.
poor little molly was so tired by then that i had to gently wipe away the membrane so she could breathe.
i'm so glad i did.
she's quirky, sweet and wonderful.
and only occasionally expects to be let in the window at 4 a.m.
happy birthday frieda.

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so many things tumbling in my mind to write about...ghosts, communing with the dead, what makes a good marriage (can you tell i'm listening to podcasts?), getting older, fears, plants, asparagus, peonies, gardening in general, memory, foxes, chickens, feathers all over the yard, buffy the vampire slayer, magic, painting, children becoming who they are, schools, whether it's ok to be the smart one, boarding school, summer holiday, content management systems, kittens...i could go on, but right now, it's all jumbled up. 

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elvendale, not just where the LEGO elves hang out. 

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

happy birthday husband and happy anniversary to us


it's husband's birthday today. sabin made this fabulous cake for him while we were at work. that's a fondant tractor that looks a bit like husband's own little red tractor. not all of it was edible. the child has learned her share of tips and tricks from watching cake programs on TLC. very clever. it was six layers with nutella, cake creme (a rather pudding-like substance), bananas, pears, pineapple and raspberry jam, all covered in whipped cream and with sprinkles and fondant decoration. just perfect.

it's also our 15th anniversary. as husband remarked this morning, "15 years. i've never been married that long before." and neither have i. until today. i hope we make it 'til at least 3 times that. it's been a great ride so far. i always feel consciously grateful on this day for the path i chose to take with husband. the memories we've made and the plans and projects still ahead. i definitely made the right choice, so many years ago, turning everything upside down for love. it was all worth it.




Saturday, February 12, 2011

12 hearts - 12 years

12 hearts - one for every year
12 years ago today, husband became husband. not a day goes by when i don't think, "that boy is a keeper." it's also his birthday. clever that, then he can never forget our anniversary. right now, as my anniversary present, he's putting in a new gas stove arrangement for me. we'll be able to cook his birthday burgers (yes, that's what he wanted) on the new burners later today. i got him some real wellies - neither are very romantic presents, i guess, but it has been 12 years - we have less to prove and more knowledge of what would make the other one happy. so a stove and wellies it is. the sun is shining and it's shaping up to be a good day.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

food fit for a king, or at least a prince

dragholm slot courtyard

 we went to dinner last evening at dragsholm slot, about an hour's drive from our house, to celebrate my birthday. i've been there 5-6 times for work-related workshops and have loved the place for a decade. the food was always great--the chef used to be french (i remember we once went for a tour de france themed dinner)--but i realized after last night's visit that now it's even better! they have definitely kicked things up a notch--embracing the nordic kitchen, using local ingredients and generally being inspired by the area.
we arrived just as it was getting dark, but i quickly snapped a picture of the courtyard area in the fading light. we went in and were welcomed and asked if we'd like to sit in the inviting leather chairs of the lobby and have a glass of champagne. we, of course, said yes. and they brought us not only champagne, but some fantastic little appetite wakers.

most interesting was the little baby carrot served in "dirt" which was made of finely chopped hazelnuts and almonds and really did look like rich potting soil. underneath was the most delectable veggie cream. the long stick is made of very danish rye bread (rugbrød) and was perfect for sweeping up all of the delicious vegetable cream, tho' i'll admit to a strong desire to actually lick the little flower pot clean. there were two other little bite-size yummies--a little round potato with more of the "dirt" on top and another which could make me revisit those ugly celery roots we get in our organic box from årstiderne--they brought out the best in the celery flavor and masked the most objectionable overpowering celeriness. most interesting of all was that the dish was inspired by the terarrium outside the main door (which i unfortunately failed to take a picture of). i love the notion of echoing one's surroundings in the kitchen.

then, we moved on to the restaurant, where we could settle in for our choice of 5 6 or 7 courses. we went for 5, since sabin had elected to hang out with our neighbors and we didn't want to have too late a night. before the first official course, they served a delicious foamed potato soup with a sprinkling of crispy chicken skin on top. there was also a basket of delicious muffin-sized breads--a dark one with malt and a light one. to go with those were a horseradish butter and a butter laced with more of the flavorful crispy chicken skin.
between the two of us, we tried all 7 of the available courses. we also ordered the suggested wine menu to go with. that consisted of wines carefully chosen to complement each course. since we were ordering different things, we decided that this was the best route to go. we were not disappointed. the courses were:
  • salted scallops with peach pureé (from the castle's own peach tree), bread crumbs and forest herbs from the castle grounds. with this there was a 2006 riesling auslese trocken fass 12-08 from hof bechtermünz, in the rhine. (i'm not that keen on reisling, but this was a good one.)
  • a summer salad (pearl-sized potatoes and radishes in a dressing) served with grilled mackerel. on the side were pickled pearl onions that complemented the fattiness of the mackerel perfectly. the wine with this course was a 2002 puligny-montrachet first cru la garenne from marques de mac mahon, burgundy. (a completely brilliant wine)
  • "seabed" which consisted of king crab, crayfish, two kinds of fresh spring caviar, squid and pickled seaweed. on top was a seafoam that really tasted of the sea. served with this was another glass of the champagne--s.a. claude gazal's carte or grand cru blanc de blancs. this was beautifully served in a glass bowl with a glass bell over it, which was dramatically removed by the waiter.
  • veal and sweetbreads with a "grandma dressing" consisting of creme fraiche, a bit of sugar, dill and horseradish and a few leaves of romaine. the veal had been slow-cooked at low temperature for 48 hours. the wine was a 2004 chateauneuf-du-pape la crau from domaine du vieux telegraphe in the rhone region. 
  • local leeks with goat cheese, croutons and ramsløg, a wonderful wild mild garlic found this time of year. sprinkled over the top was a fanastic ash made of hay. the wine was a red from the rhine, a 2005 spätburgunder rubeus from j. koegler.

 there were two dessert choices:
  • "moss"--a chocolate dessert with hawthorne, yogurt, lemon mint and another herb we weren't familiar with (havesyre). served with it was a  2007 neuburger/goldburger auslese from m. altenburger in burgenland.
  • an apple dessert consisting of apple sorbet, some super light apple cake that was baked for "around" 45 seconds in the microwave and had a lovely sponge-like quality on a bed of honey and surrounded by various seeds. there was a  1999 pinot gris eiswein from andret josef to accompany this.
it was the kind of dinner that as a home cook who is interested in food and trying new things, you simply should have on a regular basis (i'm thinking quarterly). it was challenging to the palate, it was thought-provoking. there was an admirable focus on produce from the local area and with emphasis on the castle's own forests and fields where possible.  my favorites were the scallops (i adore raw scallops--they are my favorite sushi and these were raw) and the vegetarian main dish--the leeks. the ashes weren't overpowering while i ate the dish, but i could taste that smokiness in my mouth the whole way home.

husband liked the mackerel dish and the leeks best. i wasn't so fond of the mackerel, mostly because the summer salad that accompanied it was warm and that tasted wrong to me. mackerel is a strong fish and needs a very strong complement to go with it. i didn't really think the summer salad cut through the oiliness and smokiness of the fish enough. however, the puligny-montrachet that went with it was the most brilliant wine of the evening.

the "seabed" was an inspired dish and although it had foam on top and it's my opinion that foam was over already 2005 when we first began to see it, it was a very interesting dish. the entire area where the castle is located was once under the sea, so it was a homage to that geographical fact. that was challenging and interesting in a culinary sense.

i had the apple dish for dessert and wished a bit that the intense appley-ness had been tempered with another flavor--it was apple, apple, apple, calvados (which is really just more apple). and although the individual ingredients were interesting in and of themselves, they would have been served well with another flavor--perhaps mint or cinnamon.

in all, tho', it was a brilliant meal. interesting, challenging, intellectual even. it aspired to greatness and in many ways it achieved it. i feel like the experience reawakened my own cooking inspiration, which had gone a bit dormant in the face of too many root vegetables over the winter. i'm looking forward to the greens that spring has to offer and i feel inspired to take a walk in the forest to find some of the first leaves and bring them to the table. i also feel inspired by the notion of looking to my own surroundings for presentation...the carrot in a pot was both whimsical and delicious.

the only complaint i have about the evening is that it wasn't possible to have a little stroll around castle, so i had no chance to feel the deliciousness of a hint of a ghost in the air. that's apparently only reserved for guests who are staying at the castle, which seems more than a bit unfair when you've just paid a small fortune for dinner. finding that out after the meal very nearly soured the experience for me, but i managed to talk myself out of it (mostly by remembering how brilliant that puligny-montrachet was). despite that disappointment, it was a lovely, romantic evening with husband and a great way to spend my birthday. dragsholm slot may be a bit off the beaten path, but it's definitely worth the journey.

on being thirty-twelve*


looking at the year ahead and the year behind. i always feel like doing that on my birthday. i made a list last year of the things i wanted to do. i didn't publish it here because it felt a bit like some of the items were too frivolous and some were too serious. but i've referred to it off and on, just for myself. in a way it's a bit like the new year's resolutions that i don't really make, it's just at the beginning of a new year of the calendar of ME. i did some of the things and others, i wonder why i even put them there. but as i wrote last year, it somehow seems like the act of putting things down on paper is what matters. it helps you to envision how you want things to be. and that's surely a healthy thing to do.

this year, in the face of daily news of global economic crisis (GEC), i feel much more ready to pare down and live more simply. we really have all that we need, so there are no big purchase needs on the horizon (let's face it, i don't really NEED an 8,000DKK espresso machine). i want to be better at using all of the veggies that come in my weekly organic box. i want to eat less meat. i want us to use the car less. i'm not really ready to say we shouldn't have one at all, but we should park it more and use our bikes and the trains. (it's a bit easier to say that as the weather gets warmer and more spring-like). i don't need any more additions to my stash. i could craft for an entire year without buying anything at all and still have something left over. so, these are the things i'm going to work on during the year ahead . using what we have and not acquiring anything new. i think i'm really ready to do that this time.

*i don't really mind turning 42, so the thirty-twelve reference is just to be funny.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

happy birthday, sabin!

our pooka is 8 today!  in putting together this post, i realized what a lot she did over the past year, especially for one who was only seven years old. and now she's eight! it sounds trite to say that i can hardly believe it, but i can hardly believe it. i am more amazed at her every day. just as an example, last evening, she played a card game in the whist family (davoserjas in danish) with five adults and she won. fair and square and by playing smart. she's just so cool.

sabin's year in review:

she climbed down to møn's klint (and back up), twice.
february 2008
and january 2009
she made a snowman at easter:
she went to barcelona together with her parents and big sisters:
she endulged her entrepreneurial spirit and made a little stand to sell her parents handmade rubber stamp erasers, tomatoes and muffins:
she explored nature:
she went to munich and got to meet some of the mad cousins:
she ate meatballs in ikea (several times):
she spent time in an idyllic place with a good friend:
she took a mini-cruise to oslo:
she relaxed in the gold lounge before flying all by herself to chicago.
she also joined SAS's frequent flyer program on that trip (because they finally opened it up to kids):
she did jump shots with her cousins at navy pier in chicago:
she ate strange things that turned her tongue black:
and drove halfway across the midwest (and back) with her cousins and aunt monica:
she swung at countless pitches thrown by grandpa:
got extraordinarily dirty on the 4th of july at a fishing derby:
attended a huge family reunion:
swam in the missouri river:
went to the omaha zoo with her grandparents & cousins:
REALLY learned to swim at swimming lessons in iowa:
logged far too many hours playing mario on the DS:
got her first mac:
helped with the building project (at least the lunch part):
hostessed an extremely successful halloween party:
made all kinds of creative projects:
ate sushi every chance she got:
lit sparklers in the house:
leaped off a WWII german bunker:

left 3 candles burning on her birthday cake
but had a great birthday party with her class:
and opened presents at the breakfast table this morning:
i'm really looking forward to seeing what her eighth year holds!

Monday, November 10, 2008

36 things i wish for my sister before she turns 37


november 10, that’s my little sister’s birthday. she’s turning 36 today. when i was in singapore in september, i bought her an early birthday present of an 18-200mm zoom lens for her canon DSLR, which i sent to her more than a month ago. that’s a good thing, because we’re currently not speaking, in an odd fit of misplaced loyalty to a complete stranger, she still doesn’t recognize that it was a huge violation of my privacy  to give out my email address to some random stranger on twitter (why didn’t she just give him my blog address, so the contact could happen more "naturally," i wonder every day...but i digress). 

ever since she told me to “get over myself” when i asked her why she did such a thing and wrote such a spiteful mail to the random stranger about my having not answered him, and which she so kindly BCCed me on, i have been trying to get over it. i will say that i am still feeling bewildered and hurt by the whole thing and not at all over it, but it is her birthday and so, inspired a bit by hula seventy, i have made a list of the 36 things i wish for her before she turns 37. she is my only sister, after all:
  1. laughter every day.
  2. a song to go with every occasion.
  3. an ability to rest easy within herself.
  4. to see her own worth.
  5. to pick her loyalties wisely.
  6. to be able to recognize her talents.
  7. to use those talents to their utmost.
  8. travel to exotic locales.
  9. frequent flyer miles.
  10.  rich, full encounters with interesting, engaging people.
  11.  thick, full, fluffy hair.
  12.  to appreciate what others do for her.
  13.  to “use the difficulty.” as michael caine once said on parkinson
  14.  cooking inspiration.
  15.  inspiration to entertain creatively.
  16.  quick passage through passport control.
  17.  an ability to see herself as the good mom that she is.
  18.  patience.
  19.  perseverance through the difficult times that kids put you through.
  20.  dramatic jewelry.
  21.  great handbags.
  22.  fabulous eyelashes and great mascara.
  23.  did i mention daily laughter? --i think i’ll wish this twice, because it’s important.
  24.  great love.
  25.  building wonderful memories.
  26.  peace within herself.
  27.  blogging regularly.
  28.  success in her business.
  29.  many good friends.
  30.  people around her who stimulate her intellectually.
  31.  people around her who stimulate her emotionally.
  32.  satisfaction.
  33.  creativity every day.
  34.  getting over the past.
  35.  moving on to towards the future.
  36.  happiness.

what more could one wish for one’s only sister on her birthday?
* composed on KL804 MNL-AMS, nov. 9, 2008 and cross-posted on just know where you are .

Monday, March 24, 2008

birthday musings

from march 22--the day i turned 41.

so, inspired by the hula seventy blog, last night, on the eve of my birthday, i started to make a list of 41 things to do before turning 42 (next year). i got to number 39 and couldn’t come up with the last two. isn’t that strange? looking over the list, it seems a bit vapid in spots, so i don’t feel up to sharing it here. it has a wide variety of things on it, from learning to knit and going on at least 3 city weekend holidays to the rather empty wish of obtaining an iPod Touch, to more noble pursuits, like getting serious about my writing.

whether the things i wrote down were important or not, is actually beside the point. what’s interesting is taking stock of your life and where it’s headed and where you want it to head. it can only help to get all of those wishes out and articulated—even if some of them are seemingly as empty as remaining “gold” on SAS—being gold is, for whatever strange reason, important to me. and it doesn’t hurt anyone, so it’s not so bad.

i guess i have, over the past few months, come to realize that taking stock of your life and where it’s headed and whether the things you’re doing are making you happy is a good thing. even more importantly, if you realize that what you’re doing isn’t making you happy, you have to take steps to change that. that, i have done. and it feels good and right. so, the birthday list of things i’d like to see happen over the next year is also a healthy act. it will be interesting to check back in with it regularly and see what happens. whether i will act to make them happen and even more interestingly, how i will act to make them happen.

one of the things i noted was to spend more time with friends. i already got a good start on this, since we had ab & karin and maria over for my birthday dinner. we had some great food—fresh, organic, local lamb from årstiderne, nice wine to go with it and a dense chocolate cake from nigel slater’s real food. we had lots of laughs and everyone got to make several delicious juices in the juicer. we haven’t entertained to much over the past year or so—too busy with work and then with our building project, but the house doesn’t have to be in perfect order in order for us to have people over. what matters is sharing some good food, good wine and lots of laughs.